Your Vibe Does Attract Your Tribe (As Cliche as it Is)
I am a little sad that the phrase "your vibe attracts your tribe" has been so overused that now it sounds like a bad cliche. Because it really does happen to be true. The vibe, or attitude and demeanor, that we put out into the world does in fact determine the tribe, or group of people, that come our way.
Facebook proves it.
Let's do a little research shall we? Pick up your phone or head to your laptop (depending on how you are reading this pretty awesome blog post) and open up Facebook. Scroll through your feed.
Pick out a post that is positive or encouraging. Take a look at the comments or even the people's profile that liked the post. What do you see? Their feeds are full of positivity right? People that are positive and encouraging, celebrating life and demonstrating gratitude, attract the same type of people.
Now take a look at a post that is negative or complaining. Hmmmm....I bet the comments mirror the post in some way. If you dig further the profiles of those people might just be filled with negative posts, complaints and overall negativity. Their vibe is in fact attracting their tribe. A negative tribe.
Yep...your vibe attracts your tribe.
Not only do our positive attitudes and actions attract people with similar characteristics but it also attracts people to us that are wanting to make a life change. You see, our attitude is contagious. People are craving positivity in their lives. Not only does our positivity attract other positive people to us but it also gives us the opportunity to encourage and mentor others that are wanting a life change.
Our vibe gives others courage to make life changes.
But it even gets better. Have you heard the saying that you are the sum of the five people you surround yourself with? When we are positive we attract the type of people that push us to be our best, encourage us to live boldly and courageously. Positive people like to surround themselves with like minded people. The formula is quite simple.
Our vibe surrounds us with people that push us to be our best.
Is your vibe attracting the type of people that you want to surround yourself with?
Here are a few tips:
- Decide that you will be positive, upbeat and encouraging from this point on
- Move away from negativity and towards positivity
- Surround yourself with positive, encouraging people
- Switch your negative thoughts into positive ones
- Start a gratitude journal to train yourself to see the good in all things
Living a happy, fulfilled life starts with our mindset and actions. Positivity is truly contagious and addicting. Choose to be positive from here on out, surround yourself with like minded people, and inspire others to do the same.
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